when a woman goes through menopause, she doesn't want sex as much anymore, but men can be very active for at least 20 years and still have a very strong libido. Because the woman does not like sex, or she is more authoritarian, such as e.g. policewomen, lawyers, dominant women who like to be in command, etc... this does not suit a man. But since you have a strong libido, you suppress everything because you don't want to argue with your wife. In this case, the brain translates the problem into the inability to have offspring, because in the animal and human world it is primarily about offspring, not pleasure. So as the brain interprets that you are unable to produce offspring, it helps by telling the prostate cells to multiply in order to produce more seminal fluid. In this way, the prostate is enlarged because the no. prostate cells multiply...based on this they hug the urethra tightly and the more conflict you have, the more the cells increase and the more they hug the urethra and block the water...So you will have to think about not being in conflict due to not having enough sex, or but you will have to find a lover, or something similar, so that you will not be in conflict due to the lack of sex.